You've thought about it... a lot!
You can be doing a lot… and still feel like it’s not enough.
You handle things. You try to be steady. You carry responsibility.
And yet somehow, the feedback keeps coming:
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“You’re not present.”
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“You’re always on your phone.”
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“You don’t help unless I ask.”
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“You’re defensive.”
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“Why can’t you just…?”
Sometimes it’s said directly.
Sometimes it’s a tone, a look, a sigh, a vibe in the room.
And even when you tell yourself, “Don’t take it personally,”
it lands anyway.
It hooks you.
You try to explain.
You try harder.
You shut down.
You snap.
You withdraw.
Later—maybe in the shower, in the car, lying in bed—you realize how much it got to you.
Not just the words.
The feeling underneath them:
“I’m failing.”
“I’m not enough.”
“No matter what I do, it won’t be right.”
If you’ve been living with that pressure—quietly or loudly—this workshop is for you.
Catching The Arrow
A workshop and map to decide with clarity, courage and integrity
It makes sense why making this decision is so excruciatingly hard...
The consequences of whatever you choose are deep and far reaching, impacting people you love and the direction your future may take.
You've shared your dilemma with others, but...
Whether you've talked to your friends and family, therapist or even consulted with ChatGPT, it's helped to relieve some of the pressure of holding it all in your own head, but...
The advice you are getting is leaving you even more confused and stuck in moving forward...
And even when you feel things are becoming clearer, actually taking the steps needed still feels overwhelming emotionally.
What's been missing for you to
make the best decision?
There three things we have seen again and again which our clients have told us have been of "tremendous help"...
First is a clear process and map.
Everyone -- even experts who study decision making -- gets stuck somewhere in the process when the situation is complex and stakes are this high. Staying in limbo is a choice itself a costly one over time. Having a series of steps to take and being able to track where you are on the terrain ensures you don't stray or stay in limbo for too long.
Second is seasoned guidance.
Consulting with your therapist can shed light. Family can offer another perspective. And ChatGPT may illuminate more options. But who do you go to to make sure you have covered all the bases and turned over every stone when it's time to make a big life decision?
Third is social accountability and support.
We each have the answers within and need to make the choice in the end, but navigating this process does not need to be so scary, lonely and take so long. When we gather with others going through life changes and making brave choices, we co-inspire one another and feel empowered to stay true to the path we are on...
Who are we to offer guidance?
We are seasoned professionals who have both struggled ourselves and walked our talk in making difficult and life altering decisions with wisdom and grace...
David Jurasek
A therapist and mentor to men and families for 20+ years. His own struggles with intimacy and commitment inform his work with men who wonder how to stay true to themselves while co-creating a mutually fulfilling, deep and lasting bond. He has moved 37 times since birth and straddled several careers in filmmaking, community building, theatre directing, and running projects and businesses with both large and
tight knit dynamic groups.
- David's LinkedIn
- Clinical practice - Integrity Therapy
- Men's relational growth community - Powerful And Loving
Let us walk you through the process we use thousands of times with our clients to help them make decisions which lead to greater fulfillment and peace.
